There was a study some time ago that found that autistics have a similar shortened lifespan of roughly 5-7 years off, although the good news is that's lower than it was 10 years ago, where it was something like 19 years shorter. There were some interesting biological pieces, including that autistics tend to develop more neurological conditions as they age, so that contributed to mortality.
However, it's important to look at quality of life when you're looking at aging. A lot of people with ADHD have a harder time holding down steady work, finding partners that support them, steady housing, and often times are dealing with a much higher level of residual stress and often maldaptive coping mechanisms. (Same is seen with autistics.) These things add up. That's why, within the autism community at least, there's a lot of interest in autistic elders, and figuring out how they have good aging. A lot of it comes down to a supportive job and home environment.
What I really like doing is teaching the social skills stuff through the game, but teaching them how to self/peer advocate at the table. So, I get them to role play and practice conversation skills as their dwarven arcanist or kobold influencer or whatever, but at the table they're learning how to support an autistic who is getting overwhelmed, or needs some space, etc. Just fantastic stuff. I'm getting a paper published next month on it.
Talks about internet addiction without nuance. When you're talking about addiction, you need to look at the context around it. A lot of parents like to say that their kids are addicted to screens, but when you actually look at their home life, the parents are on their phones all the time as well. Kids soak that up like a sponge. Furthermore, if someone is developing a problem behavior, there's usually a root cause. If you have someone who hasn't gotten out of bed for days due to a depressive episode, you don't say 'oh that person has bed addiction.' Youth mental health is really, really bad right now, and blaming phones is blaming a (not great) coping mechanism, but ignoring the root causes just harms kids more.
A lot of 'internet addiction treatment' is absolute bunk. Taking a coping mechanism from a kid only teaches them that adults will take away things that feel good and drop them off at a fun summer camp when they become a problem, which can be a very, very bad thing when the kids turn 21 and discover that alcohol is a lot of fun, and easy to hide the use of.
I think there's a larger conversation about phones and mental health here, but people keep on asking 'are phones the problem?' and not 'how much are phones the problem?' Problematic phone behavior doesn't happen in the void, and very often the kids with so called 'internet addiction' also have ADHD, anxiety, depression, autism, or any number of other things that can make a brain scan look off. There's also a very prevalent despair with the younger generation about the state of the world. So, going after a coping mechanism just turns parents into the bad guys, rather than trying to understand what's up.
I work with people, and when I get home my social battery is completely drained. I frequently listen to ambient music playlists to just calm down and not have a meltdown. Whenever adblock isn't working, I occasionally have such big, visceral reactions that I've almost punched my monitor. It triggers a neurological fight or flight crisis situation, and I've seen similar situations with other autistics and Youtube's ads.
But Youtube does not give a shit about people with sensory differences. Or, they expect us to pay yet another disability tax.
Maybe instead of blocking ads, they need to demand better ads. Allow accessibility options for people with sensory differences. Get rid of the toxic ads.
But, Google does not give a damn about people with disabilities. It's damn embarrassing. Don't be evil for a long time, it's just, Be Evil.
One possible reason that things aren't going according to plan is that there never was a plan in the first place.